The secret to being whole is found in serving others. That is why imperfect people can help others, even before they are perfect themselves. Focusing on your own pain, your own weakness, your own misery doesn’t help you help others. The magic of an outward mindset is that while you help others, you yourself get fixed along the way. A surgeon with diabetes can help a patient that needs a hip transplant. Eventually, someone will come along to help fix the hip since the doctor cannot operate on themselves, yet they can still serve a great many people while they are yet to be whole themselves. The same is true in life and all relationships. We are all in need of mending and repair, serve others first and your help will come. Don’t reject the help of others though, and don’t wait to serve. Just take action and accept action.