Confidence Leads To Better Decisions

When you are confident you understand the difference between wants and needs. When you are insecure everything you want feels like a need. Confidence enables growth because you are able to make decisions that are based on reality and clarity. A lack of confidence creates confusion and despair. To build confidence find courage. Take action, do more, repeat. Confidence comes from doing. Doing the right thing is courage (even when you are scared, afraid, suffering, and hurting).

Focus on your needs first, then focus on the needs of others. Once your needs are met, you can begin to attain what you want and help others do the same.

Lonely & Alone

You are not supposed to be alone.

You are not supposed to lonely.

They are not the same.

They are both choices that can be solved with dedicated effort.

We can help others avoid loneliness and being alone through encouragement, support, and connection.

To create love…

When you are helpful, you create more helpfulness. Helpfulness creates more love.

When you are kind, you create more kindness. Kindness creates more love.

When you are holy, you create more holiness. Holiness creates more love.

Wrong Results

If you have the wrong equipment, you are likely to get hurt.

The wrong books will teach you the wrong things.

The wrong tools will limit your effectiveness.

The wrong ideas will give you the wrong plans.

Wrong plans will give you wrong results.

In the end, you get hurt when your results are wrong.

Ask Yourself Questions

Introspection is the ability to think about your thoughts. When you create awareness you are able to understand your feelings, motives, and emotions. The best way to start gaining more perspective is to ask yourself questions, then write down the answers, do this daily.