Healing comes from accepting. Until you accept that what you have gone through is real, there is no overcoming. Once you accept it, then you can decide what you can and can’t control. Once you are in full control, it is easier to accept the help of others. Because you know that you are in control, you are not afraid of loosing it. Others can help us heal once we accept that we need help. You accept what is and you accept the help from others. Accepting brings healing.