How To Be The Perfect Victim

Here’s a few strategies to become the best victim you can be: 

  1. Make everything, every interaction, every situation about you. 
  2. Assume the worst in everyone else. 
  3. Blame others for your feelings. 
  4. Belittle others for having a different perspective. 
  5. Find evil intent in the faults of others, while denying your own responsibility.
  6. See your reality as more real than another’s.   
  7. Anytime someone disagrees with your delusions of victimhood shame them for not listening and not showing empathy or compassion. 
  8. Don’t ever show gratitude when others adjust their schedule or plans to accommodate your victimhood. 

It is crazy how similar being a victim is to being a narcissist. 

How Get There

If you want to do something:

  1. Find others who have done it. 
  2. Learn how they did it. 
  3. Gain the skills they needed. 
  4. Create the right relationships. 
  5. Focus your efforts and helping the the right people with your new skills. 
  6. Keep Going. 

Give & Get

The best way to find what you need is to try and give it away.






It is all the same, the the more you give, the more you receive. 


Not From Nothing

Peace doesn’t coming from nothingness.

Peaces comes from wholeness.

When you are complete,

when you are present,

when you are following truth,

when you serve others,

when you allow yourself to be served,

when you work hard,

when you rest,

then you can be at peace. 

Embrace Death To Grow

Growth also means death. Death of the old to give birth to the new. As we kill off the old versions of ourselves, we allow the new, improved, wiser, better, and more evolved version of ourself to thrive.