Ruin Self-Sabotage By Embracing Fear

Self-sabotage is not about self-hate, a need or desire for something bad, rather it is irrational fear. 

Most of the time it is not conscious behavior. Self-sabotage is the internalization of unmet needs combined with fear. 

After we accept, then embrace our fears, we can work on plans to overcome them, thus, defeating self-sabotage. 

Choosing Friends

True friendship is magical because it isn’t forced, mandated, or designated by birth.  Real friendship is when two sides decide to care for one another without focusing on changing them, but rather just the desire to experience life around each other. Friendship is a choice that brings about benefits that always outweigh the costs.