Noticing when others should forgive is easy. 

Accepting the same perspective in our own life is hard. 

You can’t decide when it rains. 

You can decide if you want to get wet. 

You can’t control the actions of others. 

You can control how their actions affect you. 

Anger never solves the problem. Anger can help us find the way out, the strategy, the motivation, the discipline, and courage to start, but will never help us finish. Calm, focused, and calculated action solves the problem. 

Teams only really work when everyone trusts and respects one another

When things get messy, a leader stays steady and helps the team keep their courage while looking for the next right step.

Selfishness is saying what you want to say, no matter what those around you need to hear. 

The ones we want to follow are those who encourage the people around them to reach their full potential.

A good leader has the quiet confidence to make a hard call on their own, but also the kindness to listen to what everyone else is going through.

When you blame others,

your life is always worse. 

Just because you can’t unsay it, doesn’t mean you can’t fix it. 

Humility is the start, proper actions are the finish.