The same event can have

multiple meanings, 

multiple purposes,

multiple outcomes. 

Our inner narrative and how the results play out depend on what we do with the information we have and the actions we take. 

As we show love, we feel love. 

As we feel love, we can be loved. 

Q: Why are we afraid to manifest our future? 

A: Because we are too comfortable holding on to our past. 

Yesterday doesn’t exist.

Tomorrow isn’t real. 

Stop telling yourself what you will do tomorrow. 

Do your best today. 

Stop telling others what you will do tomorrow. 

Do your best today. 

Complaining is poison. 

Complaining poisons your thoughts, actions, and results.

It poisons you. 

It poisons those around you. 

Joy is different from happiness. Joy includes happiness, but happiness doesn’t always include joy. Happiness is feeling good about your current situation. Joy is the feeling of real happiness and true hope based on our beliefs, intent, and personal actions, no matter the situation. 

 

You find meaning when you figure out what you were born to do. 

You create purpose when you do it. 

Healing means you are not controlled by the event, the grief.

Of course you still remember, but it doesn’t determine your emotions, feelings, or actions anymore. 

Validation is needed, it is vital.

Seeking outside validation feels good, but leaves us empty. 

Getting validated from others feels good, but doesn’t last. 

Pursuing what ends up leaving us empty and is not long-term is a recipe for emotional dissatisfaction. 

Self-validation is best, and is eternal. 

You will find what you look for.

You will see what you are trying to see.

 

Good. 

 

Bad. 

 

Beautiful. 

 

Ugly. 

 

You will find it.