Every relationship has problems. It takes two to tango. But it only takes one to start…start repairing, start healing, start fixing. 

Leaders accept responsibility. True accountability, stewardship, and ownership mean you work to fix any problem in every committed relationship. Not because the problems are your fault, but because you feel it is your job to do so. 

We all ignore more things than we pay attention to. 

One of the most effective things to do often is to ask yourself:

“Am I ignoring the right things?”

Professionals earn respect. 

Amateurs fight for it…

Professionals create trust.

Amateurs seek it… 

Professionals inspire hope. 

Amateurs kill it… 

While you can’t control what others do to you, you can control where you put yourself. Where you are at any given time determines who is around you. 

The things we discuss become us. 

The things we say betray us. 

The things we speak prove us. 

Once you are grateful for what you have,

and can let go of what you want,

you are free,

free to be,

who you were meant to be. 

Saying no as a protection to your own safety (physical, spiritual, emotional, mental) is always better than saying yes for the illusion that your yes will benefit others. 

When you are not safe, you cannot help others. 

We always do what we feel gets us what we deep down want. Sometimes that is praise, sometimes that is sabotage. Sometimes that is reward, sometimes that is rejection. As we understand our previous actions, we can adjust our future. 

The hardest decisions, the biggest battles, the longest wars are always the ones that we fight between ourselves, the conflicts between heart and our mind.

Rather than winning though, the goal should be alignment, unification, and synthesis. 

It should not be a fight, but rather a deep dive into understanding yourself. 

The more important the moment, the harder the struggle becomes. 

The hardest times require the most focused dedication and greatest amounts of hope.