Attempting to judge the potential of a person by what you see at first glance is like measuring the size of mountain with toothpick. With proper experience you can get pretty close, but you will never be 100% correct, and the chance to be very wrong is extremely high. 

When not aligned, everything burns. 

When a defined purpose is not shared, no relationship is safe.

Common goals, shared principles, and uniform values enable successful relationships. 

Every thought, matters. 

Every action, matters. 

Every word, matters. 

Every look, matters.

Every thing you do, matters. 

Nothing works instantly.

Everything instant, took a lot of work to seem that way. 

If something works well and fast, it took time to make it that way. 

True growth that leads to enlightenment is found when as we endure with hope the most painful challenges. 

Even when the body is weak, the soul and mind can and should be strong. 

A fortified soul can overcome a vulnerable body. 

A sturdy mind can overcome a fragile body. 

The fastest way to kill a relationship is to lie. 

The second fastest way to kill a relationship is to stop communication.

Most of the lies we tell are to ourselves, especially the lies we tell when we blame others for our feelings and emotions. Yet, we listen to those lies and then kill the communication that will end up saving the life of the relationship. 

Every regret is wasted. 

All regret is worthless. 

As we focus on what is coming, on the next obstacle, on the next battle, our lives become better, our intent becomes clear, and our required direction defined. 

The deeper we look inside, the deeper we search our own soul, the more truth we will be given. 

Being seen as smart is ok, it is one way. 

Being able to amaze others is a better way.