When there is contention, or conflict we often forget to self-regulate our emotions due to lack of commitment to actually solve the problem. We desire a preferred outcome, but not an overall solution. Personal outcomes often differ from group or other-focused solutions.
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Goals Support Missions
If you have a mission, it means you are committed to something. Goals help you accomplish your mission, and can change, but your mission is your ultimate objective, your super purpose. Set a mission and stay committed. Set goals and adjust as you go.
We all can have different goals, but the mission should be unified…
Happy Birthday, Julia!
Do Right All The Time
Repeatable processes that get performed/done are always better in the long-term than short moments inconsistent intense activity.
You Are Worthy
You don’t need outside validation.
You don’t need to prove yourself.
You are already good enough.
You are already worthy.
Master Repetition
Master repetition and you will become a master. Repetition is a great teacher. Yet, repetition can also be the great deceiver. Sometimes, we are so into our habits, that we forget to focus and underestimate what we don’t anticipate. Repetition is needed to learn how to act, yet it must be abandoned from time to time in order to truly grow and adapt.
Creating Eternal Tranquility
No matter how many people rise against us, if our conscious is clean, we shall be whole.
No matter how many people hate us for what we stand for, if our mind is at peace, we shall be fulfilled.
No matter how many people shun or shame or blame us for who we are, if our soul is calm, then we shall stay free.
Tranquility comes from lack of comparison, letting go of the expectations and desires of others, and aligning your heart and mind and actions with truth.
Heart-Speed
While we think we travel at the speed of time, we actually are traveling at the speed of our heart. If our heart is willing to adjust, adapt, and accept then we go fast, we grow, we progress. If our heart is closed, stuck and stubborn, then our ability to go anywhere meaningful is prohibited.
Find Context To Determine Meaning
Without context, there is no meaning.
Without understanding intent, there is no way to figure out the purpose.
Applying logic to partial truths, always creates illogical outcomes.
Changing someones words and “meaning” to match your perspective does not change you, them, or the result.
Look Outward First
As we lift others, our own burdens become lighter.
As we strengthen others, we find our own power increasing.
As we look outside ourselves, we begin to find out what we are really made of.
The Door To Open Truth & Eradicate Conflict
Truth is not always true.
Truth is not always The Truth.
There are two types of truth and often, people confuse the them.
- Personal Truth: emotions, feelings, opinions, perspectives – true for a moment in time but can change, limited application
- Universal Truth: facts, not based on mood or personal responses, apply to everyone, don’t change, eternal
Most of the time when there are misunderstandings, disagreements, and arguments it is not because the facts are wrong or different, it is because the ideas supporting the facts are not aligned.
When someone says “Look at the facts!” or “the truth is..” most of the time they mean “this is my interpretation of the events” or “my perspective of the situation says that…”
It is very rare that when two people with humility, decide together to logically look at the “true truth” (the real facts), that there will ever be heated conflict or even basic disagreement.
As we focus on the needs and wants of others, we can begin to care the right way, so the door to truth can be opened. Then we can accept that recognition and validation are both important and the keys that unlock the door are courage, awareness, compassion, and intellectual honesty.
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