Figuring out what you truly want isn’t about overthinking, it’s about listening. When you slow down, get quiet, and pay attention to what excites, annoys, energizes, or frustrates you, clarity begins to surface. You don’t need a perfect plan. You need honest reflection, small experiments, and the courage to follow your path that aligns with your values. The answer isn’t hidden. It’s just buried under the noise of busyness and the expectations of others (direct or self-imposed). Start by noticing what feels right, and let that guide your next step. Simple. Intentional. Enough.

Asking before giving is a great formula for everyone to resent you. 

Often, the identity we choose creates a prison. These limits are self-imposed but usually inhibit our personal growth. Adapting is better than rigid adherence to one specific identity. 

Fixing the emotional is as important as fixing the physical. 

Motivation isn’t permanent. 

Motivation can’t last. 

Discipline is and can be both. 

Create discipline so motivation won’t be needed. 

Happiness comes and goes.

Joy is a choice.

Joy is a gift that we need to choose to receive.

If we are not feeling the way we want to feel, we need to change and make different choices. 

Strength keeps you standing; compassion moves you forward.

The strong endure, the compassionate rise.

Power protects you, compassion propels you.

Survival demands strength; thriving demands heart.

Our life is made up of our relationships, so, if we understand each other, we understand life. 

The who care,

show it. 

 

Dear Mom & Dear Milie, Thanks for always caring and always showing it: Happy Mother’s Day! 

Vision is your compass. Faith fuels your courage. Purpose drives your growth.