You Already Know

When you give it your all you don’t need to seek validation.

But, if you need to ask, you already know.

When you ask: “Is it good?” 

or

“Is it enough?” …

You already know: it isn’t.

When you do your best, you already know it is enough because you couldn’t do more—you gave it your all, and you feel accomplished.

Feel Shame Less

Shame is usually the lack of two fundamental skills:

  1. The ability to effectively process embarrassment.
  2. The courage to ignore the judgment of others.

Shame is not guilt. 

Shame comes from how we feel about ourselves in relation to expectations we have internalized.

To feel shame less make sure your actions align with your values, learn to be embarrassed, and stop worrying about the judgement of others.