You find meaning when you figure out what you were born to do. 

You create purpose when you do it. 

Healing means you are not controlled by the event, the grief.

Of course you still remember, but it doesn’t determine your emotions, feelings, or actions anymore. 

Validation is needed, it is vital.

Seeking outside validation feels good, but leaves us empty. 

Getting validated from others feels good, but doesn’t last. 

Pursuing what ends up leaving us empty and is not long-term is a recipe for emotional dissatisfaction. 

Self-validation is best, and is eternal. 

You will find what you look for.

You will see what you are trying to see.

 

Good. 

 

Bad. 

 

Beautiful. 

 

Ugly. 

 

You will find it.  

Love is all about action. Love is shown in action. 

Trust is all about proof. Trust is earned with proof. 

Sorry is all about change. Sorry is demonstrated with change. 

Purpose is created when intent is matched to appropriate action and driven by deep personal meaning.

Intent + Action + Meaning = Unstoppable Force (Purpose)  

Your competitive spirit can be used to bridle,

develop,

and utilize

your skills, talents, and abilities. 

We all fail. 

We all stumble. 

We all make mistakes. 

The winners,

those who find success,

are the ones who keep going. 

There is comfort in what we know, 

and if what we know is pain, 

letting go can seem more difficult than holding on.

To release pain, let go. 

Let go, to release the pain. 

 

 

Happy Birthday, Juju!!!

If needs are not met immediately, human instinct is to find another source to meet those needs. 

That is why we move locations, that is why we try new things, that is why we find new friends, and that is why we hunt. 

Sometimes the results are good. 

Sometimes the results are bad. 

Our role is to help those people who are part of our circle of influence, the people we have responsibility for and stewardship over.