If stronger relationships don’t come first, personal fulfillment will always come last. 

If you don’t want to be held accountable for your actions (commission and omission) then you are not doing what is required or what you know you should be doing.

Yet, once you take on responsibility, and accept accountability, then everything changes. You now have integrity, you now are someone others can trust. 

Inner answers, answers we find ourselves, are always more meaningful and powerful than outer answers (advice, etc.) …. thus, look within before you look without. 

Everything false, hurts us. 

Everything false, we can feel. 

Everything false, destroys our souls and hearts. 

We can refuse to accept anything false. 

If you feel better,

you are better. 

Choose to feel better to be better. 

More than your advice,

others need your time,

others need your approval, 

others need your encouragement. 

The cycle of acceptance is this:

What we gain, leaves us. 

What we lose, comes back to us.

When we learn to accept what we had, what we have, and what we will have, 

then we can stay at peace. 

People listen to authority until authority fails to listen. 

The more data you have, the better decisions you can make if you are hyper-focused on ignoring the bad data. 

Knowing your core identity (strengths, talents) allows you to develop meaningful partnerships and relationships based on wisdom and good decisions that align with your vision and purpose.