We Are All Weak

We are all weak.

We all have weaknesses.

Weakness is not a character flaw unless we give in permanently.

When we make covenants and commitments and choose to permanently break them,

then we are choosing weakness, and that becomes part of our character.

Hearing Painful Truth

Whenever we hear truth that goes against our current belief system, and especially truth that shows us what we are not doing right or are actually doing wrong, our instant reaction is revolt. We deny. We justify. We make exceptions to the “truth” or rule. 

Yet, this is the first step.

This awareness that we are rejecting truth allows us to begin asking the right questions:

  • Why am I revolting?
  • Why is it so hard to hear?
  • Why do I feel attacked? 

Once we can honestly ask those questions, we can begin to examine, study, ponder, pray, and change. 

Live Up to Them or Prove Them Wrong

Expectations are a self-fulfilling prophecy or they can be the opposite, depending on the source of the expectation.. The expectations others place on you can be fuel to prove them wrong, when they come from someone ignorant, because then you want to prove them wrong. If they are smarter or more experienced, then their expectations become what we live up to.

Failed Thinking

Thinking you can’t be broken is the mindset that leads to failure.
Thinking you know the answer is the first step to failure.
Thinking your current process or plan or solution is the final and best option is the sure path to failure.