Fear is self-centered, most often it is also selfish.

Resisting is reacting. Action is proactive.

Act as if, and the confidence comes. The reality is created by the desire combined with action.

Chance is when you conspire with yourself and God to create power and turn dreams into reality.

Obsession is not love, obsessive feelings drive obsessive behavior that feels safe and is always wrong – the opposite of courage.

If you want to become free from your problems – don’t try to solve them – just disengage from them – separate emotionally from your problem so it/they no longer have power over you.

Your self-esteem determines your current state. You cannot gain self-esteem from others and make it permanent. Don’t solve or justify your self-esteem. Insecurity and possessiveness are signs of low self-esteem – the fruits of denying who you really are. Instead: accept truth and magnify truth. 

Justification is about self-preservation. Justification is short-term. Justification is weakness self-evident. Justification proves low self-esteem. Love cures the false need for justification. Validation prevents the desire for justification. Caring for others helps avoid justification from those you love.

The more we notice the good in others, the more we will notice the good in ourselves.

Blame is a lie. All blame is wrong. We can hold people responsible, but not blame – all blame is based on feelings and character flaws. None of us are perfect, therefore we cannot blame. When we focus on helping others and seeing them for who they are, the blame is erased.