ETC

Just because you are better, it doesn’t mean you will win. 

Just because you are more talent, it doesn’t mean you will thrive. 

Just because you are more experienced, it doesn’t mean you will succeed. 

Effort, Teamwork, and Courage are the variables that actually determine the outcome. 

How To Lose Faith & How To Find It Again

Faith is powerfully magical, faith changes lives, creates abundance, and heals the wounded heart. But it is so, so slippery… it can often escape when we fail to focus on the right things. 

If we stop doing, we will lose faith. 

If we stop going, we will lose faith.

If we stop hoping, we will lose faith. 

If we stop pursuing, we will lose faith. 

If we change our focus, we will lose faith. 

The opposite is also true, as we keep doing, keep going, keep hoping, keep pursing, and keep the proper focus — we can find our faith again. 

Losing faith is evidence of a lack of courage.

Courage is doing the right thing (proper thing, correct thing) in the face of fear, grief, or pain.

Finding faith is courage in action. 

Pursue Those Who Pursue Their Commitments

Once someone breaks a commitment, virtue is forsaken. All trust is lost, all respect is gone, and the ability to build true relationships is destroyed. There is a way back, and that involves going to back to the original commitment and keeping that promise, that obligation, that duty, that responsibility. 

Commitments are about you, not what or who you committed to. 

Commitments are personal. They are always your choice. People often give excuses about changes of opinions, or beliefs, or the actions of others — yet none of those things matter, none of them have anything to do with you and your willingness and ability to keep your commitment. 

The keeping or breaking of commitments always reveals our true heart and soul. 

People who choose to find excuses and break commitments will always find reasons to justify and explain away the previous commitment based on the new “light/knowledge/ideas” they have found. They will erroneously pretend that the commitments previously made are not really valid since the foundation of their belief, faith, or promise was flawed — and that their logic justifies changing their mind. Yet commitments are not about changing of the mind, they are about preserving the integrity and character of the person, the soul itself. 

The truth is, commitments are not about opinions or the about the other side, they are always about you and your willingness to be a person of virtue and morality, or someone who has no true dignity, ethics, or integrity. 

So Much Busy

We are all busy. Busy-ness is a choice. So are our feelings. 

While emotions are instant, feelings are our long-term response to instant emotions. 

Are we busy with worry and regret or love and hope? 

Are we busy with sorrow and grief or faith and peace?

Commonsense Ideas That Will Change Your Life

Knowledge is only power when applied. 

Perfection is not attainable right now, but try anyway. 

People need food, water, shelter, and community. (Not in that order, usually…) 

Practice only makes perfect when the practice is perfect. 

Love hurts, loneliness hurts worse. 

Faith drives true hope, hope cures all emotional struggles. 

The solution for every real problem is action. 

If it is not a real problem, ignore it.