If someone doesn’t make you stronger, they are making you weaker. 

but… 

No one makes us, we make ourselves by how we choose to respond to every interaction and experience. 

Complete resolve is a sign of confidence. 

When your resolve wavers, it shows you do not trust yourself or what you said you believe. 

 

Happy Birthday, Julia! We love you. 

The smartest know how to make it simple. 

The best know how to keep it simple. 

Doing these three things builds, saves, restores, and strengthens true belief: 

1. Show Up – Do what you are supposed to do. 
2. Show Gratitude & Ask For Help – Practice sincere meditation, prayer, and communication. 
3. Study Truth – Study what you need to study. 

When done: go back to #1. 

Taking these actions makes it impossible to not have true faith. 

If you are quicker, 

if you are more determined, 

if you have more resolve,

most of the time, you will win. 

Hard work is the minimum. 

Hard work doesn’t get rewarded. 

Hard work lays the groundwork for you to drive good results. 

Results get rewarded. 

If we work hard without results, we are doing the wrong work. 

 

Conflict is not contention. 

All contention includes conflict, but conflict does not have to include contention. 

The intention and motivation behind the individual in a conflict determines if there is contention. 

Conflict is a difference in idea and perspective. 

Contention is contempt or anger mixed with the need to be right. 

 

Everyone can have initiaitive. It means just taking action. 

But true value comes when there is vision and comprehension driving the action. 

True partnership takes total commitment. 

Partial commitment leads to partial results. 

Our choices make us, but we make our choices. 

We choose how to act,

we choose how to react,

we choose how to feel, 

we choose how to help others feel.