When you learn something new, question the source and find more details. The best time to gain more information is right away, from the original source. 

Optimizing the wrong things doesn’t create long-term, impactful change. 

It just creates new problems in other areas. 

Find the root problem, and fix that first. 

Then optimize what is left. 

Once we get attached to someone or something, they become part of how we define ourselves. 

Strategically letting go of some and actively pursuing others allows us to change our story and change our lives. 

Our ultimate sign of freedom is tied directly to how much suffering we faithfully endure. 

We are what we do. 

Being a jerk is easy. 

Being rude is easy. 

Treating others with kindness and respect is not easy. 

Giving up your dreams for others is true sacrifice and love. 

 

 

Thank you for your sacrifice and love Meu Amor, Happy Birthday, Emilie! 

Whenever you feel alone, unsure, or disoriented – get lost in nature, and then you will find your way. 

Example and encouragement go a long way. 

You don’t need to scold, discipline, or correct if your example and encouragement are strong enough. 

People don’t resist change. 

They resist the unknown. 

They resist wasted effort. 

They resist fear.  

They resist risk. 

 

The only way to know what is coming next is to understand those around you. It comes down to understanding what they want and need, no matter what actually gets said. It is understanding the truth behind the facade. Focusing on their goals and commitment to those goals will help you predict their actions.