You don’t have to accept the life you inherited, you can choose your life.

Most people who claim to have childhood trauma but had parents who fed them, clothed them, expected them to be good people and learned to work a bit probably are just pretending to be a victim and don’t have any real parental trauma. It is always easier to blame someone else for your situation, which is mostly caused by your own doing, than admit how you feel is actually your own choice.