It is easy to get confused when people tell you what you want to hear. When you get told a message that you already agree with, you instantly connect and feel vindicated. Then you are in a vulnerable position, one that can lead to confusion. The ideal situation is to be careful of every message you already agree with and pay attention to what you don’t know yet. Learn more. Seek after the best things, seek after what is true and right, not just what you already agree with. As you question what you already know and are willing to search for more truth – you will find it, and when you find it it will confirm your correct beliefs and correct your false ones. The confusion comes when the echo chamber you live in ends up breaking and you then are left without anything to hold on to. To protect yourself from the damage get out before it shatters.