Build A New Structure

Sour stays sour. 

Bitter stays bitter. 

Unless you change the foundational structure of the ingredients, the results are always the same. 

That is why changing your mindset to one of gratitude and of forgiveness and of trust and of kindness and of hope and of growth is key to restructuring your life. 

Avoid Bitterness

Bitterness is one way we deny ourselves the ability to heal by avoiding emotions. When the pain and missed expectations surpass our ability to cope, we rely on bitterness to numb our feelings. Once we know we are bitter, the remedy is to lean into why we are bitter and choose the opposite. 

To Heal, Rest

Rest heals. 

Resting from our internal struggles allows our emotions to heal. 

Resting from our self-inflicted shame allows our hearts to heal. 

Resting from our physical labors allows our bodies to heal. 

Resting from outside noise allows our minds to heal. 

The Lord and Savior is where we can find all the rest we need.