Love is always a choice. Love is proven in action.
We love ideas, which help us create more ideas and then we act on those ideas.
Love is not an action we do “to someone”, but rather love is something we do “for someone”.
Often, we think we need to prove our love or show our love, but those actions are usually just selfish, or done to be seen as loving. True actions of love are doing what the other person needs and wants, not what we think is needed or wanted.