Believe Then Act

When someone shows you what they think,

by how they act,

don’t look for hidden meaning, 

the simplest explanation, 

the one that is easiest to see, 

is often,

the right one.

When they show who they are,

by their actions. 

When they show how they feel about you,

by their actions, 

believe it,

and act accordingly. 

Finding Evidence Is Easy

The foundational truth that never changes:

we can always find the evidence of what we “look” for. 

If we are looking to be the victim, we will find the supporting evidence. 

If we are looking for the bad in others, we will find the supporting evidence.

If we are looking for something to be wrong, we will find the supporting evidence.